Growth Mindset

Daily writing prompt
What experiences in life helped you grow the most?

In this life, most anything can be an opportunity to grow if you look at it in the proper light. All day long we are observing and processing data, and either consciously or unconsciously, we are learning from it in some way or another. It is shaping our perceptions, which, in a sense, is a form of growth, as with growth comes change.

Even as I type this, I am not the exact same person I was just a few seconds ago. I have processed data, contemplated it, even briefly, and changed in some small way. Maybe the change is so slight it’s the equivalent of being microscopic.

I could say that I have grown just from making this post and contemplating the topic of growth itself. Perhaps this is the meaning behind the thought that even the little things in life matter. But, that’s for folks smarter than me to figure out, and I know full well that I have strayed quite far from the intent of this prompt.

The insinuation I glean from this prompt is they’re looking for major experiences. To that end, I will give a list, but will not elaborate, as these are not topics I wish to speak very much on right now.

In no particular order:

Joining the service.

Becoming a father.

Losing loved ones.

Losing a job.

I think the above are pretty self-explanatory. They are major life changes, and you can either stay as you are, which is nigh impossible unless you like the taste of failure, or you can adapt, grow and (hopefully) improve.

The opportunities to grow are all around us. Whether we take advantage of them or not is an individual decision. The tools are there; we merely need to utilize them.


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10 responses to “Growth Mindset”

  1. Life has truly been a bitter sweet teacher for you. I am sure you will keep up the same willpower and self-reliance that you have shown till now. Sending lot’s of love, good health, and happiness your way😊🥰🤗

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    1. Thank you, little sister. Like everyone else, I have had my struggles, yes. But every scar is a reminder of all the things that couldn’t kill me.

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      1. Absolutely true brother you are strong and courageous. Struggles are your strength 💪

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      2. No more or less than anyone else, sister. Every man and woman is fighting a battle. Some we just do not see.

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  2. You’ve had such great moments of your life that have carved into who you are today! I’m honoured to know you every day! Thanks a lot for sharing! 😀✨

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    1. Thank you, Ojaswi. 🙏 The honor is truly mine. 😊

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  3. So true. I’m currently reading “The Courage to Be Disliked” and I’m learning mind-blowing things about growth and inferiority complex.

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    1. I once read an article years ago where the author encouraged acknowledging happily that you were disliked and in some cases, maybe even a bit reviled. I wish I could remember the details, but within the context, the take made sense.

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  4. The roller coaster we ride. Sometimes we feel we are at the top and bottom simultaneously.

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    1. Indeed we do. I have had several days like that, as I am sure we all have.

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