Follow The Leader (Prompt: 01/19/24)

Bloganuary writing prompt
What makes a good leader?

As someone who has been a leader for the past 4-plus years, you’d think I would have a lot to say on this topic, but at the moment I really don’t.

I think right now there’s just a part of me that’s cut that portion of my life loose and is happy not to think about it. I feel like the less I let it rent space in my head, the better.

To be clear, it had nothing to do with the team I was leading. They are a terrific bunch of people and I miss them greatly. I care for them a great deal and am very proud of the time I worked with them.

That said, I will say one of the key components to being a leader is actually giving a damn about the team you are leading. Investing in them, helping them grow and taking the time to actually listen to them.

Don’t micromanage them. Give them the autonomy to do their jobs and don’t be afraid to get in there with them and get your hands dirty. Get out from behind your desk, come down from your ivory fucking tower and remember where the hell you came from once in awhile.

Some people think leaders don’t work hard, but they are wrong. Leaders work hard. Bosses don’t. There is a difference.

A former colleague of mine once said “Be firm but be fair” and it was one of the best pieces of advice I was ever given. Be fucking consistent.

A good leader motivates you to do your job well. A great one can inspire you to follow him or her to the gates of Hell and back.

It might seem they are few and far between, but they are out there. And when you find one like that, you feel like you can do damned near anything.

Well, I guess I had a couple things to say on the topic after all.


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13 responses to “Follow The Leader (Prompt: 01/19/24)”

  1. Well said Kevin!

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    1. Thank you, Liola!
      I was actually going to blow this prompt off today but then my ego or something got the better of me lol

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      1. Glad you decided to post. Well worth reading!

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  2. Thank you very much!
    Somehow I screwed up and accidentally deleted the comment. My sincerest apologies!

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  3. Inspiring guidanceπŸ™

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    1. Thank you very much πŸ™πŸ™

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  4. well said, Kevin 🀍

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    1. Thank you much, Destiny. Happy Friday!

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      1. pleasure and a great one your way ✨

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  5. In a world where a lot of leaders are sociopathic in nature, your viewpoint of a good leader being someone who actually gives a damn about his/her people is a breath of fresh air.

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    1. Thank you, Melissa. I appreciate that.
      When I lost my job last month, the amount of employees who reached out and said I was the best supervisor they ever had really meant a lot to me. It tells me that despite any mistakes I made, I never forgot about the troops on the front lines.

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      1. That must have really touched your heart to hear those employees say you were the best supervisor they ever had. In the end people don’t remember much of what you say, but they will remember how you make them feel.

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      2. Yes, it was very gratifying to hear. I am very proud of all of them. They are a fantastic group of people and I want them always to be successful.

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