Totally Random and Unplanned

This post, much like life, is, as the title suggests, totally random and unplanned.

I have no desire to share specifics, so I will just say that I got some family news today that, while not fully shocking, was still not something I truly expected to hear.

It’s not my immediate cross to bear, but it affects several members of my family all the same, and as they say, family is family.

This is one of those situations that is likely going to have long-term repercussions and will not be fixed overnight. Truthfully, it may never be totally “fixed”.

And while I am definitely concerned for those directly impacted, and will try to help if needed, I also find myself once again reflecting on how fast things can change and your world ends up completely on it’s head.

Isn’t it crazy how you can be cruising along without a care in the world, and from seemingly out of nowhere, life decides it’s time to give you a harsh, swift kick in the teeth?

They say you never know, and ultimately, I guess we never really do.

I am typing this through a haze of minimal sleep and a bit of mental wear and tear. I don’t know that I had a salient point to make other than just to remind myself and everyone else that we should enjoy what we can while we can, because in the blink of an eye, it can all change.

One gesture, one phone call, one wrong turn, and the next thing you know, you are heading directly into parts unknown.

Enjoy today, my friends, for tomorrow could be completely different, and you won’t always see it coming.

ยฉ2025, The Beginning At Last


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66 responses to “Totally Random and Unplanned”

  1. Sending a prayer to you and yours in this moment ๐Ÿ™…

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    1. Thank you, Kay. Everyone will survive, but it’s gonna be a tough road for quite some time.

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  2. One day at a time makes a whole lot of sense in many areas beyond AA. Sorry for what you are going through. Take care of yourself, Kevin.

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    1. Thanks, Susan. I’m ok. Just times like this makes one think for a bit.

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  3. Sending good thoughts

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    1. Thank you very much, Alice

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  4. I’m with you. It seems like problems come when least expected. Hopefully, the family can find some kind of resolution to at least manage the situation.

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    1. Thank you, Edward. They will. It’s just going to take some time, and I suspect it won’t be easy.

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  5. Not all who wander are lost Avatar
    Not all who wander are lost

    I feel this, unfortunately, all too well. Hang in there, we’re here for you

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    1. Thanks, Sarah. I’m ok. Just tired really. Things like this always make me stop and reflect for a moment or two.

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      1. Not all who wander are lost Avatar
        Not all who wander are lost

        Iโ€™ve had one or two of those

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      2. There’s definitely moments in our lives that make us step back and take stock for sure.

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  6. Willie Torres Jr. Avatar
    Willie Torres Jr.

    Kevin, Iโ€™m so sorry to hear about the news you’re processing. Life really does take us by surprise sometimes. In these moments, I pray that you and your family feel Godโ€™s peace and love, even in the midst of uncertainty. Keep trusting Him, and remember that Heโ€™s with you every step of the way. Take care, my friend. ๐Ÿ™
    You are all in my thoughts and Prayers.

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    1. Thank you, Willie. Your kindness is, as always, greatly appreciated. They’ll be ok, but it is definitely going to take time.

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  7. Kevin, you speak a timely word. My heart goes out to you and yours.

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    1. Thank you, Tyronica. It will be ok in time. As I said, it may never be totally fixed, but it’ll be better at some point.

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  8. Life doesn’t come with instructions or guarantees.

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    1. No it does not

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  9. a great reminder Kevin. much appreciated.

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  10. and also, for what it’s worth – may it work out ok. Mike

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    1. Thank you, Mike. It will be eventually. It’s gonna take time and work.
      While I am in a reflective/pensive mood, I am also grateful for what I have.

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  11. My thoughts and prayers for you and your family members. Take care!

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    1. Thank you very much, Annemarie. It is most greatly appreciated ๐Ÿ™

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  12. Whatever happened I am sorry youare going through this and I hope things will get better.

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    1. Thank you very much, Thomas. I’m doing ok, just feeling a bit pensive at the moment, I guess.

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  13. Kevin โค๏ธ a great reminder that things happen in a flash right before our very eyes, and things change. Unfortunately unplanned and often at the hands of others, not even our own doing. Itโ€™s a shock sometimes when things change at the speed of (not so welcoming) light. This is one of the times where I wish I could just be beside you to give you a hug. Get some much needed rest โค๏ธ and may you feel much better upon waking. ๐Ÿ™

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    1. Thank you, luv โค๏ธ
      I’m ok. Just needed a moment or two to get back up to speed. Like I said, mostly had a moment of reflection about stuff in general

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  14. So much is out of our control. Believe me, I know.
    Sending good vibes, Kevin.

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    1. Thank you Nancy. Yes, life has its ways for sure ๐Ÿ™

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  15. ๐Ÿ™Sending prayers to you and your family. Take care of yourself, my friend. ๐Ÿค—

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    1. Thank you, T. Your kind words are deeply appreciated ๐Ÿ™

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  16. What happened?

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    1. Nothing I wish to dive too deeply into. Just something that made me refect upon how quickly things can change more than anything

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      1. Okay good luck with that!

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      2. Thank you, my friend ๐Ÿ™

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  17. Best wishes to you and your family Kevin. ๐ŸŒป

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    1. Thank you very much, Sara. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

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      1. Youโ€™re most welcome, Kevin! ๐Ÿ˜

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  18. Sorry to hear the bad news bro. Glad everyone made it out alive and can recuperate.

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    1. Thank you, Ernie. Gonna take time, but everything will work out eventually ๐Ÿ™

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      1. Prayers brother.

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      2. Thank you, Brother. I am most grateful ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

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  19. So sorry to hear this Kevin.
    You are so correct.
    One blink of the eyes and it can all be so different.๐Ÿ™„
    Take care my friend ๐Ÿ™

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    1. Thank you, Maggie. ๐Ÿ™
      Yes, it’s sometimes a whirlwind that comes out of nowhere and really knocks you around.

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      1. It is my friend ๐Ÿ™„
        Look after yourself ๐Ÿ™

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      2. Doing my best for sure ๐Ÿ˜Š

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      3. ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—

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  20. That is one aspect of life which makes it so scary. Great post. I hope your family will be alright.

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    1. They will be in time. Just going to be a bit until some stuff gets sorted out
      Thank you ๐Ÿ™

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  21. Sorry to hear Kevin and sending good vibes to all and you! Itโ€™s my life and Iโ€™m starting to really get the moment to moment, real time and let things fall where they do. ๐Ÿ’“

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    1. Thank you very much, Cindy. Everything will be ok. Just gonna take some time ๐Ÿ™

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  22. I hear you, bruv. Xmas Eve last year, my nephew left a company party with his buddies. Less than 2 mins later, one of them was wrapped around a light pole. We can’t take anything for granted.
    Sending some good vibes your way, my friend.

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    1. That’s truly awful. You really never know.
      Thank you, Nigel. Hanging in there. ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘

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  23. It’s always a shock when we get news of something bad happening to family. Sending good thoughts that all will be better really soon.

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    1. Thank you very much, Barbara. Your kind words are deeply appreciated ๐Ÿ™

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  24. Yes life can change in a matter of seconds, if we are not directly affected that’s good but we feel for those who are. I hope things improve for all those involved

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    1. Thank you very much, Joanne. In time, it will be okay. Just going to take a bit to get there ๐Ÿ™

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  25. So true Kevin, we never know what’s coming, we can only hope we are strong enough to cope with it.

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    1. Therein lies the rub, yes. Learning to deal with it is often the true task.

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  26. “Carpe diem” ~ Seize the day. “Tempus fugit” ~ time flies.

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    1. It does indeed ๐Ÿ™

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  27. I haven’t been receiving your posts in my email, Kevin. It says subscribed, but we know WP.

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    1. I’m sorry for your troubles, my friend. Sending love and prayers.

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      1. Thank you very much Mary. In time things will be okay ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š

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    2. Indeed we do, Mary ๐Ÿ˜„
      I miss a lot when it acts up too, so I totally get it

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