The Beginning At Last

Fatherhood

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Daily writing prompt
What are you most proud of in your life?
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I’m actually going to play this one straight today. Shocking, I know.

If I had to pick one thing to be most proud of, I would have to say being a father, and all that comes with it.

I don’t talk much about personal matters, but suffice to say that, like many of you, I too know pain and struggle.

To say that the road my daughter and I have followed was a difficult one is putting it mildly. For more years than I care to count she has been my rock, and I have been hers. For a long, long time all we really had was each other.

I am proud of the job I did raising her and I am proud of the fact that through the worst of days we held it (mostly) together and were there for each other.

Most of all, I am proud of the strong, smart and capable woman she has become.

And I know her Mom is looking down from above and she is very proud too.

©The Beginning At Last

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92 responses to “Fatherhood”

  1. satyam rastogi Avatar
    satyam rastogi

    Nice post 🌺🌺

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      Thank you very much 😊

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      1. Kevin Avatar
        Kevin

        Ok, thanks. Hope you’re having a good day!

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  2. Laura Avatar
    Laura

    Beautiful, Kevin ❤️ just beautiful. No doubt, she is 🙏😊

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      Thank you. For everything. 😍😊

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      1. Laura Avatar
        Laura

        Of course, you are welcome. Always 😊 🤗 🥰

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      2. Kevin Avatar
        Kevin

        😍😍😍

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  3. Susana Cabaço Avatar
    Susana Cabaço

    So beautiful, Kevin! How we manage to do our best, regardless of the storms of life, is what matters the most! I am sure you did great and feel so when you look at your beautiful flower! Light and blessings to you both!

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      Thank you very much, Susana. Yes, I am proud indeed. And extremely blessed. 🙏

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  4. Ephemeral Encounters Avatar
    Ephemeral Encounters

    So beautiful Kevin 🤗🙏

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      Thank you very much, Maggie. 😊

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      1. Ephemeral Encounters Avatar
        Ephemeral Encounters

        My pleasure Kevin 🙏

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  5. T.L (alazyreader) Avatar
    T.L (alazyreader)

    Beautiful post, Kevin 🙏

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      Thank you very much. Deeply appreciated. 🙏🙏

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  6. Ernie 'Dawg' Avatar
    Ernie ‘Dawg’

    Excellent post Kevin, You touched my heart with this one brother.

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      Thank you, Ernie. I am extremely glad that it resonated with you, my friend. Deeply appreciated.

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  7. MaryG Avatar
    MaryG

    Thanks for sharing that.

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      Thank you, Mary. 🙏🙏

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  8. Tamyra Miller Avatar
    Tamyra Miller

    What a blessing you are for each other♥️

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      Thank you, Tamyra. It is I who am most blessed in this case.

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  9. sambuca22 Avatar
    sambuca22

    I love my Dad too. ❤

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      That’s awesome. Enjoy every second that you can, my friend.

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      1. sambuca22 Avatar
        sambuca22

        ❤

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  10. Info man Avatar
    Info man

    Well done 👏👏👏👏

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      Thank you very much. 😊

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  11. The Sicilian Storyteller Avatar
    The Sicilian Storyteller

    That was glorious, Kevin. ♡

    ~ Nancy

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      Thank you very much, Nancy. Deeply appreciated. 😊

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  12. Destiny Avatar
    Destiny

    heartfelt to heartwarming, Chief …🙏🙏🙏

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      Thank you very much, Destiny. Greatly appreciated. 😊😊

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      1. Destiny Avatar
        Destiny

        pleasure always 🤍🙏

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  13. Celina Avatar
    Celina

    A tear just rolled down my cheeks, Daddy is a Daughter’s Only Hero. I feel each word of yours so deeply; my daddy never left me, even from Heaven he is with me and is my only Hero.
    Thank you so much for reminding the world of this very precious bond you share with your daughter🙏 God bless you both abundantly!!

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      Thank you very much, Celina. I am very happy that this touched you so deeply. I genuinely appreciate your kind words. 😊😊

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      1. Celina Avatar
        Celina

        You’re most welcome Kevin 🙂

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  14. Not all who wander are lost Avatar
    Not all who wander are lost

    Our children are definitely blessings. They help us persevere sometimes when all else seems impossible. I’m glad you have such a blessing in your life, and I am sure she feels blessed as well.

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      I am very grateful too. For a long, long time, she was my one anchor to happiness. The one thing in life that had not let me down.

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  15. Alice Avatar
    Alice

    Deeply personal and strong.

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      Thank you, Alice. I truly appreciate the kind words. 🙏

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  16. Bianca Alina Avatar
    Bianca Alina

    So beautiful, Kevin! 🙏♥️

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      Thank you very much, Bianca. Very grateful for your kind words. 😊

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      1. Bianca Alina Avatar
        Bianca Alina

        It’s my pleasure, Kevin! 😊☀️♥️

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  17. Kay Avatar
    Kay

    Wasn’t expecting to get this choked up ❤ . Awwe… this was such a beautiful read! Thank you for sharing this part of yourself with us ❤

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      Thanks, Kay. Yes, every once in awhile, even I have a moment of emotion, I guess. 😊

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      1. Kay Avatar
        Kay

        Awwe… yeah, that whole being human situation will get ya from time to time.

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  18. Golden Dust by Preksha Avatar
    Golden Dust by Preksha

    Absolutely amazed to read this . To know that you count your relationship with your daughter as a thing to be proud of makes me feel all the emotions and feelings as a daughter. I swear, my dad has been that pillar of strength in my life .

    Your role in her life is eternal. You both complete each other .
    Wishing you both days, weeks , months , years filled of companionship and support of eachother.🌟❣️

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      Thank you very much. I greatly appreciate that. Yes, I hope to be around for a long, long time to enjoy it. 😊😊

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  19. Mary K. Doyle Avatar
    Mary K. Doyle

    Our children own our hearts. I’m happy you know that kind of love, Kevin.

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      Thank you very much, Mary. I am definitely blessed in that regard. 😊

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  20. Wiwohka Avatar
    Wiwohka

    As I read through your writing, weeping openly, I love you so much, Kevin, and I am so grateful to God that you are within this community! Big hugs incoming

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      Thank you, Wiwohka. I genuinely appreciate your kind words, and I am extremely grateful for you, and so many of the other fine folks here as well. You all truly make the experience worthwhile, and the kindness humbles me tremendously.

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  21. submissivelyprincess Avatar
    submissivelyprincess

    That was so beautiful Kevin, thanks for sharing a piece of you. Hugs 🤗

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      Thank you very much. 😊 Your kind words are greatly appreciated. 😊😊

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  22. Drops of Ink Avatar
    Drops of Ink

    Beautiful post, Kevin. Truly. 🙏🏼🙏🏼

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      Thank you very much, Phoebe. I greatly appreciate the kind words. 😊🙏

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  23. philosophy through photography Avatar
    philosophy through photography

    That’s truly something to be proud of—raising a strong, smart, and capable daughter through thick and thin.
    It’s no small feat, and the bond you’ve built is priceless.
    I’m sure her mom is beaming with pride too.
    Well done! 🌟

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      Thank you very much Philo. And yes, our bond is a very strong one, for which I am eternally grateful 🙏

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      1. philosophy through photography Avatar
        philosophy through photography

        That’s beautiful to hear! Strong bonds are life’s greatest treasures. 🙌 It’s amazing how those connections can fill our lives with so much joy and gratitude.

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      2. Kevin Avatar
        Kevin

        Very much so, yes. When the world is unkind, there is always that to hold onto and I am grateful for it.

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      3. philosophy through photography Avatar
        philosophy through photography

        Absolutely! Gratitude is our shield against life’s storms! 🌈💪

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      4. Kevin Avatar
        Kevin

        Truer words were never spoken, my friend. 😊😊

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      5. philosophy through photography Avatar
        philosophy through photography

        Gratitude really is the ultimate armor, rain or shine!

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  24. Stella Reddy Avatar
    Stella Reddy

    🌞

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      😊

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  25. noidgm Avatar
    noidgm

    “we held it (mostly) together” is the best possible level you could reach dad, Bravo!

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      Thank you very much! 😊

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  26. billy202484 Avatar
    billy202484

    Great story I wish I would’ve been better for my daughter and there for her more my daughter is 16 now and due to my very poor choices in life I’ve only been in her life for a few years because my choices have kept me incarcerated I’m blessed with getting good news from my mother about her and her knowing that I love her despite my actions haven’t showed it like they should thanks for ur story Kevin I hope to build a better relationship myself

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      Thank you, Billy. I am very glad that you liked this.
      And it is never too late to try and rebuild that relationship. It may be difficult and possibly even painful at first, but ultimately, it is worth it.
      Best of luck to you. 🙏

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        billy202484

        Yes sir that’s my plans and hopes and through God anything is possible and achievable thank you for your words of encouragement

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  27. Fatherhood – filmy Gyan Avatar
    Fatherhood – filmy Gyan

    […] Fatherhood […]

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  28. Stephanie Avatar
    Stephanie

    How fortunate you are, to have each other. Lovely post, Kevin.

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      Thank you, Stephanie. Yes, I am truly lucky and blessed in that area. 😊

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        Stephanie

        🙂

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  29. Darryl B Avatar
    Darryl B

    Very nice, brother. Nothing more important than family, both here and above. Well done. ❤️

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      Thank you very much, Darryl. I am definitely blessed. 🙏

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  30. shelorina Avatar
    shelorina

    Beautiful and lovely post.

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      Kevin

      Thank you very much 😊

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  31. Sam Glass Avatar
    Sam Glass

    Nice post. Heartwarming to read.

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      Kevin

      Thank you very much 😊

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  32. Daniel Padilla Avatar
    Daniel Padilla

    Hi Kevin, I truly enjoyed reading your post. I’m 21 and I miss my father everyday, it’s tough without him but you keep on going. I have gone through the struggles of growing up, a divorced family and all that. I always knew that I never wanted my kids to experience what I been through but I genuinely do not want kids. Would you say this was/is one of your purposes in life. What I am trying to say is if raising your daughter was better than anything else. All you thought about life, did that shift once your newborn came around. I wish to be proud of something and I am upset at myself because I truly want to give back to someone and give them the life they deserve. I want to experience what you have but I genuinely cannot with a kid. I have a girlfriend at the moment and I love spoiling her, whether it’s a gift or buying her food when she’s hungry. That brings me joy. I just, I don’t know. I think you should be proud of yourself as well, she is a reflection of you. That brings me some light and hope to use that logic with myself.

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      Hi Daniel, thanks very much for your comment. I can only speak for myself and say that once I found out I was having a child, my perspectives on a lot of things changed. Your priorities definitely readjust, pretty constantly, as kids grow and their needs change on what sometimes feels like a daily basis. Some people go their entire lives without having kids, are quite content, and that is perfectly valid too. Everyone has to follow their own path. I don’t know that anyone can force themselves to want kids, nor should they, maybe. You may find in time that you change your mind, but if you’re happy with your life trajectory, that is definitely justifiable too. You don’t need a child to be proud of things as they are.

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  33. Nicole Horlings Avatar
    Nicole Horlings

    A touching response to the prompt question. 🙂💛 The love is shining through loud and clear!

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      Thank you, Nicole. One of the very few prompts I have answered fairly seriously. lol

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  34. Owuraku Asante Afrim Avatar
    Owuraku Asante Afrim

    As a young boy aspiring to be a father I am motivated by this post to be the best father there is to my children. More beautiful things will find you in this journey

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      Kevin

      Thank you very much! 😊

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  35. Shel R. Avatar
    Shel R.

    Love this so much! ❤ It sounds like you have done a great job.

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    1. Kevin Avatar
      Kevin

      Thank you, Shel. All i know is I tried my best 😊

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  36. Neha Devidas Chavan Avatar
    Neha Devidas Chavan

    😍✨

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  37. Toluwani Majaro Avatar
    Toluwani Majaro

    Hello Kevin 🤩😍. Pleased to meet you and visit your website. I agree with you 💯 that fatherhood is a great responsibility. Keep it up

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      Kevin

      Thank you very much. my friend! Pleased to meet you as well! 😊😊

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        Toluwani Majaro

        Thanks too Kevin. I would also appreciate if you visit my website and suscribe.💗💓😚😙
        Thank you 😘❣️🤩😍

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  38. Finally Free Avatar
    Finally Free

    Two words that I think of lie to everyone that would read them. Compassionate sacrifice. All of us that sit by patiently watching others push and fraud to get in front. You could have done the same. No, you could have used heads as stepping stones and ruled the world from golden thrones. But instead you walked in the trenches and saw what you knew to be true. Your brothers and sisters will be in front, but of the vanguard, holding flames right to the fuse

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  39. Congratulations, Kevin! – Black Moon Lilith 🌙 Avatar
    Congratulations, Kevin! – Black Moon Lilith 🌙

    […] am proud of you. You have come so far, whether you realize it or […]

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      Kevin

      💗

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